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What Trauma Massage Is (And What It's Not)

  • Writer: Tammy
    Tammy
  • Nov 5, 2025
  • 2 min read


Discover what trauma massage truly is and why it’s more than just deep tissue or fascia work. Learn how trauma massage supports the nervous system, emotional safety, and lasting healing at Rebel Wellness in Valley Junction, West Des Moines.



Every massage therapist works with muscles and fascia. Some use intuition. Others focus on relaxation or technique. But trauma massage? That’s a different conversation.


Trauma massage isn’t about fixing or releasing someone’s pain. It’s about helping the body remember safety.


When someone carries trauma, their nervous system lives on alert. Muscles guard. Breath shortens. Touch can trigger or soothe, depending on the approach. Trauma massage works with this reality, not against it. It’s not just about where the pain lives, but why it’s there.


It’s More Than Fascia


Fascia holds tension, memory, emotion, and protection. Trauma massage respects that those layers are intelligent. They developed for survival. When we rush to release fascia, we can actually overwhelm the system.


True trauma informed work focuses on resourcing first. That means grounding the body so it knows it’s safe enough to let go.


A client might not cry, shake, or have a big emotional release on the table. That doesn’t mean nothing happened. It means their system was given the space to choose safety over performance.


It’s More Than Intuition


Many therapists say, “I’m intuitive,” and that’s beautiful. But trauma massage isn’t guessing or sensing where to go. It’s about understanding trauma physiology.


Many massage therapists say, "I do that to!" "Same thing I do, so how is it different?"


It’s knowing how to track nervous system responses, when to slow down, when to pause, and how to help the body regulate through breath, compression, or stillness.


It’s a dance between science and soul, part neuroscience, part somatic awareness.


It’s a Safe Space, Not a Fixing Space


When someone says, “I thought I’d start crying on the table,” they’re expecting a big emotional event. But sometimes trauma healing feels quiet. The goal isn’t to make someone cry. It’s to help their system feel safe enough not to need to.


Trauma massage meets people where they are. Sometimes that means supporting deep emotional processing. Sometimes it’s simply giving the body permission to rest.


This is not about fixing tight muscles. It is about providing a safe space, safe touch with awareness to the changes in the body, giving the client the ability to finally exhale.


What You Might Feel


Clients often describe trauma massage as grounding, disarming, or deeply safe, even when it feels subtle. Some say, “It felt like my body finally exhaled.” That’s the work. That’s the shift.



The Rebel Wellness Approach


At Rebel Wellness, trauma massage isn’t a technique. It’s a conversation between body and soul, rooted in neuroscience, somatic awareness, and safety.


This work honors the body’s pace, its protection patterns, and its deep wisdom.


You don’t need to cry to heal.

You just need to arrive.


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Email: tammy.rebelwellness@gmail.com

Telephone: 720-256-9981

1441 29th Street 

Suite 210

West Des Moines IA 50266

Monday-Thurs 2 pm-8:30 pm

Fri-Sun  2 pm-7 pm

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